Give me one reason to stay here
And I’ll turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here
And I’ll turn right back around
Said I don’t want leave you lonely
You got to make me change my mind

Baby I got your number and I know that you got mine
But you know that I called you, I called too many times
You can call me baby, you can call me anytime
But you got to call me

Give me one reason to stay here
And I’ll turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here
And I’ll turn right back around
Said I don’t want leave you lonely
You got to make me change my mind

I don’t want no one to squeeze me
They might take away my life
I don’t want no one to squeeze me
They might take away my life
I just want someone to hold me
And rock me through the night

This youthful heart can love you
Yes and give you what you need
I said this youthful heart can love you
And give you what you need
But I’m too old to go chasing you around
Wasting my precious energy

Give me one reason to stay here
And I’ll turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here
And I’ll turn right back around
Said, I don’t want leave you lonely
You got to make me change my mind

Baby just give me one reason
Give me just one reason why
Baby just give me one reason
Give me just one reason why I should stay
Said I told you that I loved you
And there ain’t no more to say

—–

Yes… please do… give me a reason…

THE POWER OF THOUGHT
Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships.
Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and
ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider his/her needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you
recognize him/her when you meet him/her.

THE POWER OF RESPECT
You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect, ask yourself, what do I respect about myself?? To gain
respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, what
do I respect about them??

THE POWER OF GIVING
If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it. The more
love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of
yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of
kindness. Before committing to a relationship, ask not what the
other person will be able to give you but rather what will you be
able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong and
loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead
of what you can take.

THE POWER OF FRIENDSHIP
To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does
not consist of gazing into each other’s eyes but rather looking
outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must first love him/her for who they are and not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love’s seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.

THE POWER OF TOUCH
Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.

THE POWER OF LETTING GO
If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you, then
it’s yours. If it does not, it never was. Even in a loving
relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to
love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and
grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, ego and
conditions. Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power
over me — today is the beginning of a new life!

THE POWER OF COMMUNICATION
When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never let an
opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love
with a loving word last it could be the last time you see him/her.
If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the
people you love, who would you call, what would you say and…… why are you waiting?

THE POWER OF COMMITMENT
If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it
and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions.
Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving
relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When
you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an
option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a
strong one.

THE POWER OF PASSION
Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not
come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep
commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be
recreated by recreating past experiences. When you feel passionate,
spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and
happiness are the sameall we need to do is to live each day with
passion.

THE POWER OF TRUST
Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, envious and fearful and the other person feels trapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone
completely unless you trust him/her completely. Act as if your
relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the
ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask
yourself, do I trust them completely and unreservedly? If the answer
is no, then think carefully before making a commitment.

We are born with two eyes in front because we must not always look behind but see what lies ahead beyond ourselves. We are born with two ears, one left and one right, so that we can hear both sides, collect both the compliments and criticisms. We are born with a brain concealed in a skull, then no matter how poor we are, we are still rich and no one can steal what our brain contains. We are born with two eyes, two ears but one mouth for the mouth is a sharp weapon. It can hurt, flirt and kill: remember our motto — talk
less, listen and see more. We are born with only one heart, deep in
our ribs and it reminds us to appreciate and give love from deep
within.

I finally found someone
That knocks me off my feet
I finally found the one
That makes me feel complete
It started over coffee
We started out as friends
It’s funny how from simple things
The best things begin

This is it, oh I finally found someone
Someone to share my life
I finally found the one
To be with every night
‘Cause whatever I do
It’s just got to be you
My life has just begun
I finally found someone
And whatever I do
It’s just got to be you
My life has just begun
I finally found someone

—

but then… i’ve lost it…

somehow you will regrets on words that you have utter to your friends… if only u can turn back the time.. but then again… things happened for a reason.. those words came out from your lips is how you feel inside… is what you want  them to know.. is what you feel they should know.. but somehow.. you never imagine that those words could hurt them one way or other.. but you have been hurt with their words.. with their sayings about you.. so why bother about their heart..about their feelings… the thing is… I’m not like them.. i’m not feelingless… i’m not heartless… i have my own feelings.. my own heart that i really do not want to hurt it in anyway…

but then again…. who am i….

Aku yang lena tak terjaga
Didodoikan lagu cinta
Bertilamkan sutera putih
Berselimut dingin salju

Kehangatan cinta darimu
Mentari pun tunduk malu
Terbang mencari reranting
Merpati bersaing

Sayang bisakah kau dengar
Bisik hati insan dalam ketandusan
Sayang ku hampir kecundang
Sebelum kau datang beriku penawar

Setitis kasihmu
Jatuh ke kolam hatiku
Dan menjadi madu

Andai dapat ku ulangi cerita
Kisah asmara rumi dan julinya
Andai cinta daku tiada terbelah
Berbelah dua

Kau satu di antara seribu
Engkau satu terkunci di hatiku
Di sisi cinta di tabir luka
Luka yang tersisa

heheh…acara makan di umah milia… acara pot luck… ajak beberapa orang kawan…bawak macam2… kenyang perut makan.. siap memasing boleh tapau bawak balik lg!!..

menu?.. ada kek, ada cok badak, ada pegedil, ada nasi tomato+ayam masak merah+dalca, lempeng+kari, rendang limpa+ketupat palas. and of course.. ada buah mata kucing..ada DOYAN.. ooo kome.. doyan dah berbunge… hehehhe…dan tak  lupa… the ever pemes kuaci chacheer!!…

aktiviti?.. well.. ada yg layan bola.. ada yg lain IKON .. ada yg layan kuaci.. ada yang layan "old maid".. hehehe… varies!!.. yg penting semua senang hati and happy2… and seperti biasa.. kalu dah berjumpa untuk berborak tu.. tak hengat dunia… semua topik kuar… dari kisah silam.. kisah sekarang..kisah masa depan…

  ibu… milia.. mami…

  lempeng…

rendang limpa…

What, then, is the elusive thing called "Love" that everyone so desperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl because she is beautiful? Or the girl likes him because he is handsome? But this kind of "Cinderella Syndrome" when the girl is waiting on her Prince Charming, is not real love. It is better known as "Infatuation", and there is a vast difference between it and real love. Enumerated here below are the differences.

Find out if you are really in love and not just infatuated.

Infatuation -

Also remember, never tell a woman you love her, unless you are willing to marry her. Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless. Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and your "feelings" than it is in the other person.

Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.

Love - Now you understand what is infatuation, let us now go on to discuss about Love.

1. Love is Patient -
   The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out of her shell, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view – maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding. Have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, Love is willing to give the relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.

2. Love is Kind -
   Love seeks to encourage and build up on others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others. It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy, i.e. Compliment one another, magnify the other’s strength, Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important, etc.

3. Love is not Jealous -
   Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.

4. Love is not to Brag -
   Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often, a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself. Others will exalt him.

5. Love is not Arrogant -
   Love is not conceited, boastful, cocky or stuck up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude . Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanor implies, "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you". Of course this is not love.

6. Love always Covers -
   This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with faults of others. It doesn’t criticize or broadcast to the world the faults of others. Love is present even when it knows the other is not perfect.

7. Love always Perseveres -
   Love always stands its ground and holds out . It will outlast anything. It will even love on the face of unreturned love. Real love will last through all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.

8. Love is not Provoked -
   This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centered not self-centered. Love says, "I love you, I want to give you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"

9. Love does not act Unbecomingly -
   This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishonorably, or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its actions. It is characterized by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl or offering her your arm when you walk together.

10. Love is Forgiving -
    Lastly, this is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is only an hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn’t hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn’t remain resentful.
    

Semalam….apa aktiviti?.. isk..isk.. dari pg sampai mlm.. penuh!!!.. penat nyer datang ari ni…

as usual.. pagi pegi keje… tghari.. milia gerak ke KL.. pegi ngan mami , kami pegi Low Yat Plaza, beli barang sket… hajat hati nak makan nasi ayam bukit bintang tu..tapi mengejar masa.. milia makan sushi king jer… lama dah tak makan..sedap gak la.. lps tu milia berkejar ke MCOBA.. ada meeting situ.. start kul 2… heheh..tapi sampai 2.45!!.. jem teruk KL ni.. rasa nak sondol2 jer kete2 yang suka benor tunjuk teror on the road ni…

abis meeting almost 6!!.. kematu bontot duduk … tak kira dgn kesejukan yang melampau.. milia terus shoot balik klang… beli kan abah doyan sket… yg besh nya.. bukak sangai.. atau dikenali juga.. tudung salji.. ada lauk2 mcm2.. besh2.. heheh.. ada sop ikan jenahak.. ada pucuk geti masak lemak campur pisang.. ada sambal belacan… wadus wadus… selera besor!!… apa lg.. terus capai pinggan n  senduk nasi.. suap mulut ler.. heheheh

ingat nak lepak lama sket kat umah Klang… tapi abah nak p ngaji kat surau.. mak plak tak brp sehat nak tido jer.. so boring plak.. milia kuar la awal.. p jumpa haya.. lepak2 minum.. makan….

then milia balik BB….

Kau masih menduga sehingga kini
Andai ku bersenda dengan teka teki
Seribu bayangan aku gambarkan
Masih lagi kau tak mengerti

Bukannya teka teki gurauan hati
Sekadar melindung kasih yang tersembunyi
Bukan mudah mencari kasih abadi
Dalam terang ia sembunyi

frens… milia bukan nyer pandai sangat atau reti sangat nak beri2 nasihat ni kan.. bak orang tu kata la.. jgn cuba nak nasihatkan orang kalu diri sendiri tak ternasihat… tapi.. bila kita pikir2 balik.. bila kena kat batang hidung sendiri.. memang susah nak nasihatkan diri sendiri… tapi kita boleh nasihatkan kawan2.. sbb it is easier to say it than actually doing it.. Tp as a fren.. menasihatkan kawan.. kan satu tugas..satu tanggungjawab.. salah ker?.. anyway… ni milia ada dpt few advice… from the internet… which milia rasa very good.. very useful.. and very meaningful….so read it.. dan pahami la..

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TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to   suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity   may result in separation.

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if   the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".

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A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too. 

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CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up a nd discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

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NO OVERPOWERING

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

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RIGHT SPEECH

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It’s like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

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PERSONAL PERCEPTION

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

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BE PATIENT

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can’t. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

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The Bottom Line

geram?… sbb apa geram?.. obviously the message i have tried to relay does not reach the brain!!!.. infact.. the stories became a different one..

and all the points given?.. came back to me??..

the last part of my stories.. did mentioned, that i’m not a counselar. I am just sharing some infos.. some experience.. some stories.. too bad if a person cant see rite thru it.. not my problem…

dont judge me when you dont know me…

dont tell me what to do if you are nobody to me..

dont assume things when your assumption is all bullshit…

dont pinpoint my mistakes when you have your own mistakes to think about…

Hari ini sebelum kita mengatakan kata-kata yang tidak baik,

Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak dapat berkata-kata

sama sekali.

Sebelum kita mengeluh tentang rasa dari makanan,

Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang tidak punya apapun untuk dimakan.

Sebelum anda mengeluh tidak punya apa-apa,

Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang meminta-minta dijalanan.

Sebelum kita mengeluh bahawa kita buruk,

Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang berada pada keadaan yang

terburuk di dalam hidupnya.

Sebelum mengeluh tentang suami atau isteri anda,

Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang memohon kepada tuhan

untuk diberikan teman hidup.

Hari ini sebelum kita mengeluh tentang hidup,

Fikirkan tentang seseorang yang meninggal terlalu cepat.

Sebelum mengeluh tentang anak-anak kita,

Fikirkan tentang Seseorang yang sangat ingin mempunyai

anak tetapi dirinya mandul.

Sebelum kita mengeluh rumah yang kotor kerana

pembantu tidak mengerjakan tugasnya,

Fkirkan tentang orang- orang  yang tingal dijalanan.

Dan di saat kita letih mengeluh tentang pekerjaan,

Fikirkan tentang pengangguran, orang-orang cacat yang

berharap mereka mempunyai pekerjaan seperti kita.

Sebelum kita menunjukkan jari dan menyalahkan orang lain,

Ingatlah bahawa tidak ada seorangpun yang tidak berdosa.

Dan ketika sedang bersedih dan hidup dalam kesusahan,

Tersenyum dan berterima kasihlah kepada Tuhan bahawa kita

masih hidup…………………..