Aries 30th November
Thursday November 29th 2007, 4:16 pm
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The Bottom Line
You certainly won’t be bored today! Your regular routine will be thrown on its ear.
In Detail
Although this won’t be the most exciting day you have ever lived
through, you certainly won’t be bored. That’s because your regular
routine will be thrown on its ear at a very inconvenient moment, and
you will be quite busy just trying to figure out how to right it again.
But don’t worry — the interest it adds to your life will far outweigh
the annoyance you will feel. You’re in the right frame of mind to see
problems in a whole new way — and solve them in a whole new way, too.
My birthday is 22nd March..Purple!!
Wednesday November 28th 2007, 5:02 pm
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are Mysterious, never selfish and get interested in things easily. Your
day can be Sad or Happy depending on your mood.You are popular between
friends but you can act stupid at times,and forget things easliy.You go
for a person that’s trustworthy.
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hahahah… do you believe it or not? 100% it is me!!!.. yup… i can be mysterious if i want to.. I can be or act stupid if i dont know things.. And i do forget things easily… Memori daun pisang!!.. I’m not sure if I’m popular or not.. but I do go for trustworthy people. It is hard for me to put trust on people. But once I give it, it’s 100%. Sebab tu la hard for me to trust people back bila sesorang dah mengkhianati kepercayaan yang milia bagi. To me.. trust is very important in a friendship, let alone in a relationship. Sekali kena.. forever and ever akan di ingati!..
Tapi kan.. kenapa kita nak khianati kepercayaan yang di beri pada diri kita?.. Kenapa kita nak menipu orang tu?.. Kita pernah terpikir tak.. kalu kita boleh tipu orang tu.. orang tu pun sebenarnya boleh tipu kita.. what comes around goes around.
let me share with you a story of my life!.. hahah.. sounds boring eh?.. but.. there’s a lot that you can learn.. or at least I’ve learnt a lesson out of it.. the hard way!!!…The story goes….
I had a bf once.. and of course.. i do love him, and I do hope that he loves me too la.. ( or at least that is what he told me la kan..)..anyway, i put 110% trust on him. To me trust is very important… as I gave him 110%, i hope to received the same trust from him!. BUT, he never trusted me. Always accused me of doing things behind his back… for e.g : dating with other guys.. Eventually I got fed up with all his accusations. So one day, I went online, met my own bf online. So I chat with him. ( use a diff ID ). pergh!!!… lagi teruk menggatal rupanya.. so i caught him red handed!!.. So.. apa lagi.. perang besar la. Promised not to do it again. But of cos.. my trust has gone. I became this very suspicious lady!!.. apa dia buat semua tak betui to my eyes. Buat betui.. tak betui ke.. to me semua tak betui. Dia cakap jujur… ckp betui ke.. to me.. dia tipu.. so in the end the relationship did not last. Sbb asik gadoh jer.. hehehe… benda kecik pun jadi besar.. sbb no trust. So .. to all couples out there.. remember.. TRUST IS VERY IMPORTANT!!!… Break the trust.. and you’ll never get it back!!!
50 Mistakes Women Make When Having Sex.
Wednesday November 28th 2007, 4:48 pm
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raging hard on when it suits you. Contrary to popular belief, men can’t
just flip a switch and get it up because you decided to stop being a
frigid bitch. Getting it hard is your job. I suggest you figure it out.
2.
Thinking that kissing needs to be this sweet romantic thing all the
time. Sometimes pressing your lips against your partners mouth while
you get off is the hot. It depends on the situation.
3. Leaving
him responsible for your orgasm. You know what gets you off. Tell him.
If you don’t, it’s your own fault when he’s snoozing and you’re all
wound up.
4. Expecting him to cuddle. Men and women are wired
differently. Sex makes most women want to talk and bond and all that
shit. It makes men pass out. It’s a biological thing. Stop fighting it,
and stop holding it over his head, it’s not his fault.
5.
Expecting him to fall asleep with you in his arms. That shit is
uncomfortable after awhile. A little snuggling isn’t unreasonable, but
when it’s time to actually sleep? An arm draped over you should suffice.
6.
Expecting him to always lay on the charm and romance. Sometimes, that’s
nice. Sometimes. But expecting him to be all roses and candles all the
time is like expecting you to act like a pornstar all the time. If
you’re not willing to do that, don’t expect him to switch for you.
7. Being selfish in bed. Regardless of the shit that Cosmo forces down our throats, sex is NOT just about us. Get over it.
8. Using Cosmo as a sex bible. I don’t know who comes up with half that shit, but I’m pretty sure they need counseling.
9.
Whining when he pushes your head down on his cock instead of stroking
your hair. Know why he’s pushing, skippy? Because you aren’t doing it
right, and have apparently ignored the other clues he’s given you. Pay
attention to the signals that he’s sending you.
10. Not moving at all. Missionary is not an excuse to do nothing.
11.
Expecting him to undress himself with any amount of grace. He’s about
to get some pussy. Be glad he bothered to take his pants all the way
off. If it concerns you so much, undress him yourself.
12. Not shaving your legs. I’m pretty bad at this myself. But if you want your guy stubble free, you better get out the razor.
13. Allowing your crotch to resemble the amazon. Yes, waxing hurts. Yes, some people don’t want to go bare. That’s
fine. If you like bush, great. If you have sensitive skin and can’t
shave, I feel for you. But for the love of Christ, trim that shit if
you want him to spend any time down there.
14. Assuming that sex
means a relationship. The only relationship you have is that he has now
stuck his hoo hoo dilly in your cha cha. That’s as far as it goes
unless otherwise noted.
15. Withholding oral sex just because
you’re ragging. He didn’t do it. Unless you want him to withhold oral
sex because he’s hormonal, I suggest you get some kneepads.
16.
Expecting him to figure out what you like by what noise you make. Use
your words. Have you ever actually heard what you sound like while
you’re having sex? If you heard yourself on tape, and someone asked you
to explain what was causing you to make that noise, 67% of women would
respond with answers like "I stubbed my toe" "I ran up the steps" or "I
was putting up drywall".
17. Leaving condoms up to him. If
you’re sexually active and insist that he uses a condom, I suggest
buying a box and keeping it by your bed. Not all men keep them on them,
and it’s just as much your responsibility as it is his. If you think
that makes you a slut, you shouldn’t be having sex anyway. Go back to
Jr High.
18. Getting your undies in a bunch when he talks dirty.
A little fantasy can be fun. If he treats you with respect all the
time, you shouldn’t be offended when he calls you his dirty little
slut. When he calls you a whore and tells you to come, its his way of
showing that he cares if you get off. Stop being a sissy.
19. Refusing to be spontaneous. I know this is shocking, but sometimes sex OUTSIDE of the bedroom is fun.
20.
Dissing quickies because it’s not some slow sensual ordeal. Sex is a
dynamic thing. Theres an awesome raw energy when you only have 20
minutes but having to have someone so bad that you do it half clothed
against the wall. Readjust your thinking.
21. Being too much of
a pussy to tell him what is or isn’t acceptable before you start
bumping uglies. Be honest. If he asks if he can poke you in the butt,
and you giggle and say no like it’s an invitation, don’t look surprised
when he "accidentally" sticks his cock in your butt.
22.
Expecting him to undress you. I put a bra on almost every day. I know
for a fact that getting them off isn’t always easy. Help a brother out.
23.
Undressing in the dark. If youre shy, dim the lights, but give the man
something to see. No ripping off the clothes and diving under the
covers, either.
24. Refusing to get on top. Theres no reason men should have to do all the work.
25.
Getting that bored look on your face. Men are more visual than women.
Give him something to look at. Get on top and arch your back a little
bit. Move. Do something to indicate that you 1) are not dead and 2)
didn’t suffer a minor stroke rendering you unable to move.
26.
Expecting him to do all the touching when you’re riding him. It’s your
body, you’re used to it. Play with your tits, rub your clit, do
something to make his job easier.
27. Being too afraid to guide
your partner’s hand when hes touching you. Don’t like the way he’s
doing it? Gently take his hand and show him how you like it.
28.
Getting into bed, getting naked, fooling around and then deciding that
you just want to cuddle, then getting offended when he doesn’t. Its
your choice to stop, but don’t look all fucking surprised when he’s
confused. You got him naked in your bed, what else did you think was
going to happen?
29. Refusing to let him take control. So your a
feminist. Big fucking deal. Letting him call the shots doesn’t make you
any less of one.
30. Refusing to take control. Its ok to crawl
across a bed to him on all fours, push him down and crawl on top. It’s
not his responsibility to start things all the time.
31.
Forgetting that he has a body that likes to be touched, too. Men have
things like backs and shoulders and stomachs and other parts that are
fun to kiss and touch. You miss a lot of good places by concentrating
solely on his penis.
32. Ignoring his balls. Seriously, they are
there. Kiss them, lick them, suck on them, make a relationship with
them, just don’t ignore them.
33. Leaving him to his own
devices. Nothing is worse than a girl who gets you most of the way off
and then bolts because she doesn’t want to deal with the mess.
34.
Launching into some speech about not being an object for sex when he
tries to titty fuck you. Jesus Christ, just push them together and
enjoy yourself. You get a great view.
35. Expecting him to
handle you like a porcelain doll. I’d hate to be the bearer of bad
news, but you’re not going to break, sister. So doing it against the
wall gives you a bruise on your shoulder. Look at it later and giggle
at the memory.
36. Refusing to try things in the name of "making
love". You’re not making anything. You are naked. With another person.
Making strange faces and weird noises. Stop romanticizing it.
37.
Taking things way too seriously. Sex is funny. Actually it’s hilarious.
Somewhere along the line, someone is going to fall off of a bed, hit
their head on a lighting fixture, accidentally kick a midget or trip
over a goat. It’s how you deal with it that really matters.
38.
Throwing a bitch fit when he asks for a 3 some. Its the American dream.
(I know my ex is reading this right now, so a quick interjection. One
request for a 3 some is ok. Every 5 minutes, not so much. Know the
difference).
39. Continuing a blow job knowing that you have god awful cotton mouth. Really. Grab a bottle of water.
40. Nails. Its one thing tracing them up and down your partners back. Its another when you snag the goods with a claw.
41.
Bitching when you get jizz on you. You’re having sex. That will happen.
Thats the entire point of sex. Establish where he can and cant jizz and
be done with it. Remember, it tightens the pores.
42. Not making any noises at all. Moan. Scream his name. Something so he knows he’s the best you’ve had, even if he isn’t.
43.
Faking orgasms. Just. Don’t. By faking (IF he believes you) he thinks
he’s doing everything right. And if he doesn’t know its not working,
he’s not going to change it. Starting a vicious cycle of unfulfilling
sex which will eventually be very damaging to his ego.
44. Not
washing before sex. I know that sex is spontaneous, this is more of a
general statement. If you haven’t showered that day, and things smell a
little…fishy…perhaps demanding oral sex is a little ridiculous of
you.
45. Anything that involves inserting anything into his body
that he has not specifically approved before hand. I don’t care what
Cosmo says, some things are simply not pleasant surprises.
46.
Refusing to use oils/whipped cream/other messy but fun things because
you have 541510630 count Egyptian cotton sheets that were made by hand
by the only person alive capable of sewing that pattern. They’ll wash.
47.
Doing all of your before bed things before sex. Yes, sleeping with
makeup on is bad. Now is not the time to remove it, you can do that
later. And really fucking you with your hair in a ratty scrunchie with
acne cream on your nose is not all its cracked up to be.
48.
Cleaning up after sex. Wiping the splooge off is one thing. But
changing the sheets immediately so you can get the other ones in the
washer and then sanitizing everything your naked body might have
possibly passed by is not the way to do it.
49. Making a big
deal out of it if he loses his hard on. This is not an interrogation,
or 20 questions. It happens, he’s probably mortified and you are NOT
helping. Refrain from using phrases like "it happens to every guy".
Just move to other activities until it gets hard again, and if it
doesn’t, get off another way with him. He’s still capable of getting
you off. Mumbling "Forget it" and rolling over are not ok.
50.
Asking questions right afterwards. The woman equivalent of "was it good
for you?". Now is not a good time to ask "What this means". Right now,
it means he probably needs to take a drink, a leak and a nap, perhaps
not in that order.
Done. feuiiih.
Aries 29th November
Wednesday November 28th 2007, 4:47 pm
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The Bottom Line
Don’t cut any corners today. Give yourself all the time you need, no matter what.
In Detail
The amount of work you put into something is directly proportional
to the quality of said work, so try not to cut any corners today. Give
yourself all the time you need, so you won’t rush and miss some very
urgent details. Be thorough with everything you do — spell check every
email before sending it off, and make sure you have returned all
important phone calls by the middle of the day. Leaving too many
questions unanswered will cause someone’s imagination to spin in some
weird directions.
Love Again???
Tuesday November 27th 2007, 8:39 pm
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Here’s a very revealing exercise: Think of the 10 people you spend the
most time with in your life – whether family, friends, or co-workers.
On a scale of 1 to 10, with 10 being tops, how loved, honored, &
cherished do you feel in the presence of each of these people?
Of course, you can also ask, "How loved, honored, & cherished do
each of them feel in my presence?" but that is the focus of our next column.
It is remarkable how quickly this simple exercise shows us how well –or
not well – we are being loved by those in our inner sphere of living.
Can you see the enormously undermining impact of low ratings on your
happiness in life?
Each of us, in our constant desire and struggle to move higher &
higher in our living & awareness, needs love that is nurturing,
accepting, adoring, empowering, sustaining, and dependable. This is not
simply a nice thing to hope for. It is your spiritual right to be
loved, honored, & cherished by those around you. Accept this as one
of your love standards in life.
For each person you rated as loving, honoring, & cherishing you at
a 9 or 10, rejoice that you are being loved so well. Tell them about
this exercise. Thank them for their love.
For each person you rated 8 or below ask yourself - without blaming the
person or yourself – "How can I help this relationship move towards a
10?" Thinking this way is loving yourself and opening your life to the
awareness that it is your spiritual right to be loved, honored, &
cherished.
"Yes, but what about the close family member who doesn’t love, honor,
or cherish me? I can’t just ditch my family." Of course not, but you
can step outside of your time-anchored relationship with that person
and set new standards and expectations. You can speak with an honesty
infused with love that sees the higher vision of the love you deserve.
You can tell them how your heart feels. In loving truthfulness, you
will find others awakening with you and
because of you. It’s not about blame. It’s about love expansion – for
everyone. You are simply being called forth to be the love teacher –
helping others, even a close family member, learn how to love you at a
higher level.
"Yes, but what about the co-worker who doesn’t treat me well. I can’t
just go ask that person to start loving me." Well, actually, you can!
You don’t have to use the word "love," but you can engage that person
heart to heart. You can find a private moment and tell that person that
you would like to discuss how you both could advance your relationship
so both feel better about each other. This calls for courage on your
part. But the alternative is a continuing life of not being well loved.
"Yes, but what if I talk to the family member or co-worker and they
don’t care?" Continue to love them from your highest selfhood, but be
aware that you deserve to be surrounded by people who love, cherish,
& honor you. Your higher consciousness of love – loving yourself
without blaming others – will move those who don’t love you well to a
further distance in your life and those who do love you to a close
embrace. And bring new love givers into your life as well. This is the
path that opens your life to the love you deserve – and the big secret
is that you, by yourself, have the power to create this higher love
around you.
Welcome to the heart of Love!
Aries 28th November
Tuesday November 27th 2007, 4:47 pm
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The Bottom Line
Use your communication skills to make sure a friend understands what you need.
In Detail
If you are looking for a new dose of romance in your life, playing
‘hard to get’ is not advisable right now. You have nothing to lose by
advertising your urge to get to know someone better, so put some effort
into getting the word out today. Let people know that you are looking
– it could plant just the right seed in someone’s head. If romance
isn’t on your list right now, use your communication skills to make
sure a friend understands how your relationship has changed.
Kenduri 25th November
Monday November 26th 2007, 8:56 pm
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Jurnal Kenduri lagi… hehe.. ahad lepas.. 25hb November milia memasak utk kenduri lagi. kali ni di rumah K.lang di shah alam. Seperti biasa.. tukang masak… milia and 
long.. di supervise kan oleh mak. menu kami kali ni sedap belaka… kami masak kari kerang ( campur terung, tomato, cili ijo), sayur campur, ayam goreng rempah, sambal cili ikanbilis/tempe/kacang/kentang, daging dendeng, ikan masin, ulam - timun, ulam raja, pucuk ubi, kacang botol, and sambal belacan - sambal belacan limau and sambal tempoyak. Kuih muih plak… ada kuih bakar, kek lapis, kek coklat, n karipap. Also buah limau. and air sirap limau. meriah makan kan… heheh… tp mmg pengsan masak nyer. kami start masak dari sabtu malam tu. rasa nak tercabut kaki milia. pagi tu konon nak la berbaju elok sket.. tapi sbb dari subuh sepie milia dah kena masak… sambut orang dgn jeans n t-shirt buruk
jer… nasib baik tak busuk. Muka mmg berminyak la…orang datang boleh tahan ramai nyer. nasib baik k.lang psang khemah di luar tu. Yang paling siok skali.. bila orang puji masakan kami sedap!!!!.. hehehe… kembang lobang hidung… kembang hati.. so kami cakap.. ni ANAK CIKGU’s CATERING… sesila la hubungi kami kalu nak kami masak.. hehehe.. promote!!!… incase korang tak tau kan.. ANAK CIKGU`s CATERING tu join venture milia and kak long .. buat bisnes catering.. hehehehe… masak memasak ni kan peveret kami. heheheh…. makan pun feveret kami gak!!hahahahahah…
milia mintak maaf sbb tak der gambar makanan.. sbb nyer milia tak sempat nak mengamik gambar.. milia terlalu sibuk di dapur. ayam goreng tu… kami buat 15 ekor.. potong 16 ketui…daging dendeng.. 8 kg kami masak. kerang?.. 35kg… sayur campur?.. pergh… tak tertimbang plak.. dah tu.. campur kobis/carrot/mushrrom/paprika/tauhu kering, ikan bilis tu???.. ikan bilis 1.5 kg, tempe 10 keping besar, kentang 3 kg and kacang tanah 1.5kg jugak. ikan masin 2kg. so korang leh byg kan la quantity yg kami kena masak. hehehe… expert dah masak!!!…
Untuk Mu Selamanya….
Monday November 26th 2007, 8:05 pm
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Seharum mawar merah
Kujadikan cinta untukmu
Selama-lamanya oh…
Kasihku
Seluas laut biru
Ku jadikan rindu untukmu
Selama-lamanya
Biarpun duri yang bisa
Menjadi penghalang cinta
Aku yang di sini
Hanya untukmu jua
Biar laut bergelora
Menjadi resah sejuta
Aku yang di sini
Pencinta yang setia oh…
Kasihku
Seharum bunga kemboja
Ku jadikan miliknya
Seandainya terpanggil selamanya(
25 sebab suami ‘mental’!!
Monday November 26th 2007, 8:03 pm
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1. Memperkecil suami dihadapan orang lain antara sedar dan
tidak walaupun ianya benar ie. "hubby i tu kan kan..memancing ikan pun
dia tak tau.. bla bla bla "
2. Menganggu suami dengan
menelefon dia terlampau selalu sangat dan selalu dimasa yang salah.
ie. "hello abang ada meeting ker tu, sorry la cuma nak cakap.. malam nih
kita goreng taugeh dan tauhu cicah sos toamto jer ..ok tak "
3. Terlalu suka mengemas rumah / mengalihkan barang
sampai suami tak jumpa barang-barang yang disimpan beliau.. ie. "kita
dah simpan pancing tu kat dalam stor, entah la ikat kat atas
palang mana satu.."
4. Mengambil muka surat atau bahagian tertentu dari
surat khabar dan menyusun surat khabar dengan cara yang amat
salah..sampai tidak dijumpa mana-mana seksyen yang hendak "bang, sport
section tu ayang dah buat bungkus buah papaya….dah mengkal merah dah"
5. Memotong mana-mana bahagian majalah dan juga
suratkhabar atau apa-apa bahagian dari mana-mana printed matter sampai
berlubang sana sini dan sisuami tak sempat baca/tengok " ie. eh kita
suka la news pasal TV plasma tu..kita dah potong simpan…"
6. Menyuruh suami agar membeli itu dan ini dalam
perjalanan balik dari opis sedangkan nak pergi pasar/supermarket cuma
esok sahaja atau baru semalam telah ke pasar. ie. "bang.. semalam kita
tersinggah SPA, lupa beli garam,gula beras dan susu budak kat TESCO
sebagaimana dalam list….boleh singgah tak mana mana ..pleaze "
7. Tidak memberi arahan/instruction yang jelas kepada
suami bila menyuruh dia membeli sesuatu dan kemudian
memarahkan/menyalahkan suami. ie. "saya kata beli susu cair dan ising
gula, apsal awak beli susu dugro dan gula getah …kan lain tu"
8. Membuat temujanji dan aktiviti sosial tanpa
mendapat persetujuan suami terlebih dahulu ie. "i dah confirm malam
Jumaat nih nak party tupperware kat rumah cik minah,you tak ada program
tahlil kat mana mana kan ?? "
9. Mengubah barang, tempat buku atau tools atau
apa-apa setting di PC tanpa memberitahu suami. ie. "screensaver u
tentang gambar 80 kilo marlin dengan you tu i dah tertukar jadi gambar
Farhin Ahmad…"
10. Bercakap/bersembang di telefon dengan kawan-kawan
sewaktu malam selepas 10 pm bilamana nak beristirehat dan
ber…ber….ie. " pot pet pot pet pot pet pot pet pot pet pot .."
11. Menjemput tetamu atau sesiapa sahaja datang kerumah tanpa izin
suami. ie. "malam nih i jemput lina dan anum datang dinner rumah sebab
hubby dia orang outstation, ok kan kan kan "
12.
Berpakaian kusut masai dengan t-shirt terkoyak dan kain batik lusuh dan
rambut tak terurus serupa langsuyar dan muka tak bermekap serupa mayat
dirumah… tapi cukup segak dan cun bila nak keluar rumah. ie. "..oh
baju-baju cantik tu cuma untuk ke kenduri kawin dan dinner jer, kat
rumah pakai coli koyak pun dah cukup seksi kan bang .."
13. Mengambil masa yang cukup lama bila bersiap macam
pengantin bila nak keluar kemana-mana dan membuatkan suami tertunggu
dan terus tertidur. ie. " sorry la i tak tau baju kebaya mana yang
paling jarang so kena pilih betul betul .."
14. Dengan sengaja atau tidak sengaja terlupa
menyuruh maid atau diri sendiri membasuh atau mensterika baju atau
seluar yang telah dipilih untuk dipakai dihari berkenaan. ie. " eh baju
tu masih berendam dalam besen lagi..nak pakai jugak ke baju basah
tu.."
15. Dengan sengaja atau tidak sengaja menyebelahi
anak anak bila suami sedang hot dengan budak budak tu..ie. "..eh
biarlah budak budak tu pergi ladies night, bukan nak tinggal rumah
kawan dia tu seminggu.."
16. Tidak suka mandi dan bersiap awal pada hari cuti
dan hanya bersiap bila nak dekat asar sahaja. ie. "…nak mandi buat
apa awal awal bukan nak pergi jalan jalan mana pun.."
17.
Suka melengah lengah kan masa bila nak bersolat berjemaah atau
beribadat dengan melencong ke dapur, bilik budak budak atau buat benda
benda lain. ie. "..awak solatlah dulu, saya nak abiskan
rancangan Melodi nih.."
18. Mengganggu suami yang sedang tengah tengok tv.
ie. "pasukan hijau kuning tu sampai mati tak akan dapatkan Kaka, mari
tolong saya potong ayam nih.."
19. Asyik bercerita
tentang diri sendiri tanpa memberi peluang pada suami untuk bercerita
jugak. ie. " u tau tak kat opis tadi, i rasa nak massacre client tu u
tau tak.. then lagi, waktu balik tadi nasib baik opis boy tahan
I ..then lagi tak tak …then today.. then tadi..u tau tak…semalam u
nak tau….bla bla bla bla."
20. Membebel dan berleter tak renti-renti tentang
hal-hal yang amat kecil dan di ulang tayang semula tiap tiap hari. ie.
" i dah kata jangan kasi budak budak tu prepaid, kan sekarang dah
…bill bla bla bergayut bla bla bla bla…ini semua salah you"
21. Memfitnah dan menuduh suami tanpa usul periksa.
ie. " eh cik abang,awak nih ada affair ke apsal sms beep beep beep tak
henti henti nih…GRO universiti mana pulak awak nak nih…"
22. Menceritakan hal rumah tangga pada orang lain dan
memburuk-burukkan suami @ keturunan suami @ asal usul suami. ie. "..eee
u tau tak hubby i tu makan makanan petai jeruk.. eeeii peliknyer!!"
23. Dengan sengaja atau tidak, gagal memasak masakan yang suami nak
makan. ie. "..apsal u tak cakap tadi kata u nak makan gulai kari dan
rojak pasembor…i dah masak pai daging dan spaghetti kambing .."
24. Meminjamkan harta-benda suami pada orang lain tanpa kebenaran.
ie."..adik u datang tadi nak pinjam berus gigi, sebab dia punya dah
rosak.."
DAN AKHIR SEKALI
25. Sengaja melengahkan untuk masuk tidur tanpa sebab-sebab
yang munasabah di malam Jumaat. ie. "..you tidurlah dulu, i nak
habiskan tengok drama susuk nih dulu then nak masak nasi lemak siap
siap untuk breakfast dan nak masukkan pakain dalam laundry then
kemudian nak kacau dodol….."
Adab Bagaimana berhadapan dengan Suami
Monday November 26th 2007, 8:01 pm
Filed under:
Jurnal Kehadiran suami di rumah merupakan
satu rahmat kepada setiap isteri. Hanya isteri-isteri yang menderhakaisuami
sahaja menganggap keulangannya suatu yang dibenci kerana dibebani dengan
berbagai kerja dan tanggungjawab. Amat malang sekali jika ramai lagi isteri-isteri
yang masih bersikap sedemikian.Hilanglah matlamat perkahwinan di mana isteri sebagai
penenang dan penyeri rumahtangga.
Di bawah ini dinyatakan cara-cara berhadapan dengan suami.
1. Semasa suami bercakap hendaklah isteri diam mendengarnya dan jangan
suka menyampuk atau memotong cakapnya.
2. Bila suami marah hendaklah isteri mendiamkan diri,jangan suka Sikap suka
menjawab, bertekak dan menegakkan kebenaran sendiri akan menambahkan lagi
kemarahan suami. Jangan terkejut jika suami angkat kaki meninggalkan rumah
berhari-hari atau tidak mahu bertegur sapa dengan anda sebagai denda di atas
kedegilan anda sebagai isteri. Sebaliknya, kalau suami kembali ke rumah jangan
disambung atau diulang-ulangi cerita lama. Sambutlah suami dengan senyuman
kasih sayang dan bersegeralah meminta maaf. Jangan kita tunggu suami meminta
maaf dengan isteri, jatuhlah martabat keegoannya selaku seorang lelaki.
3. Kadang-kadang si suami sengaja suka mengusik isterinya.Bila dia menyakiti
hati isteri hendaklah banyak bersabar,jangan cepat merajuk. Merajuk adalah
sifat orang yang tidak matang dan seperti perangai keanak-anakan. Cuba kita
perhatikan perangai kanak-kanak, mereka akan cepat menjerit bila ada sesuatu yang
tidak kena tambahan pula kalau yang menegurnya itu ibunya sendiri. Sengaja
dihentak-hentakkan kaki meraung sekuat hati meminta simpati dari ibunya.
4. Bila kuku, misai dan janggutnya panjang hendaklah segera dipotongkan (jika
panjang janggutnya lebih dari segenggam).Pilihlah hari-hari yang terbaik iaitu
hari isnin, Khamis dan Jumaat.
5. Jika dia berhajat sesuatu hendaklah isteri cepat bertindak.Bangun segera
bila disuruh. Jangan melengah-lengahkan kemahuannya supaya tidak mencetuskan
kemarahan atau rasa tersinggung dihatinya.Jangan isteri buat acuh tak acuh,
hatinya akan kecewa dan menandakan isteri sudah tidak taat padanya.
6. Hendaklah memasak mengikut kesukaan suami bukannya ikut selera isteri. Kalau
suami suka makan gulai kari atau masak lemak cili api, janganlah kita masak
lauk asam pedas atau ikan goreng. Suami akan gembira bila seleranya ditepati.
Janganlah pula ikan yang menjadi mangsa, diketuk lengkang-lengkung hingga
hancur kerana meradangkan sikap suami yang mahu lauk tersebut dimasak mengikut
seleranya sedangkan isteri tidak menggemarinya.
7. Apabila pakaian suami koyak atau tercabut butangnya hendaklah segera
dijahit. Jahitlah dengan secantik yang boleh supaya pakaian itu kelihatan
cantik. Jangan dibuat sambil lewa kerana jahitan tersebut akan melambangkan
peribadi isteri samada ikhlas atau terpaksa. Semua suami akan berasa bangga
jika pakaiannya dijahit sendiri oleh jari-jemari halus
isterinya,sekurang-kurangnya dapat menampung ekonomi rumahtangga.
8. Sentiasa sediakan barang-barang keperluan di dalam poket baju dan seluar
suami iaitu sikat, celak, cermin kecil, minyak wangi dan kayu sugi. Tidak
menjadi kesalahan seandainya si suami menolak segala persediaan tersebut tetapi
sekurang-kurangnya sediakanlah minyak wangi dan kayu sugi.
9. Bila bertembung kehendak suami dan anak-anak,dahulukanlah kehendak suami,
begitu juga dengan kehendak ibu ayah. Sekiranya suami ingin dilayan hendaklah
ditaati meskipun isteri berada di dalam keadaan letih. Melayani suami merupakan
satu pahala besar keatas setiap isteri kecualilah jika suami kita meredhainya.
10. Apabila menggunakan harta suami ataupun duit yang hendak kita hadiahkan
kepada ibu bapa maka mintalah izin darinya terlebih dahulu. Jangan beri dahulu
kemudian baharu diberitahu kepadanya.Siapa tahu mungkin wang itu amat
diperlukan sedangkan isteri sewenang-wenangnya telah menghadiahkan kepada orang
lain, suami dapat pahala sedangkan isteri tidak dapat apa-apa. Sebenarnya
meminta izin itu ialah sebelum melakukan sesuatu tindakan bukannya setelah perkara
itu berlaku diberitahu. Ini silap sebenarnya tapi kes-kes seperti inilah yang
sering berlaku di kalangan para isteri.
11. Sentiasa berada di dalam keadaan bersih dan kemas ketika suami berada di
rumah. Isteri hendaklah berada di dalam keadaan berwangi-wangian supaya hatinya
senang untuk bersenda gurau dengan isterinya. Ketahuilah bahawa bersenda
gurau antara suami isteri juga merupakan salah satu ibadah yang diredhai oleh
Allah swt.
12. Air minum suami hendaklah sentiasa disiapkan jangan sampai dia minta
biarpun sekadar air masak sejuk. Sebaik-baiknya sediakanlah minuman panas
seperti kopi, teh atau susu. Air panas elok disimpan di dalam termos supaya
memudah dan menjimatkan masa kita. Kalauboleh sediakan kuih-kuih ringan seperti
karipap, cucur, bubur,apam ataupun biskut kering. Hal ini juga dapat mengelak
anak-anak dari membeli makanan ringan di kedai yang tidak mengandungi zat di
samping tidak terjamin kebersihannya.
Akhir kata hendaklah isteri sentiasa menghormati dan memuliakan keluargasuami.
Bersikap ramah-tamahlah dengan keluarganya dan bersabarlah di atas segala
tindakan mereka jika ada yang bertentangan dengan syariat. Di sinilah peranan
isteri untuk berdakwah kepada mereka tetapi biarlah berhikmah dan kena caranya
agar setiap tindak-tanduk kita dikasihi dan dihargai oleh mereka seterusnya
menjadi menantu atau ipar yang dicontohi akhlak, peribadi dan ibadahnya.
Wassalam..
Some Definitions
Monday November 26th 2007, 7:35 pm
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Jurnal
Cigarette: A pinch of tobacco rolled in paper with fire at one end & a fool on the other.
Etc.: A sign to make others believe,you know more than you actually do.
Love affairs: Something like cricket where one-day internationals are more popular than a five day test..
Marriage: It’s an agreement in which a man loses his bachelor’s degree and a woman gains her master’s.
Classic: A book which people praise, but do not read.
Diplomat: A person who tells you to go to hell in such a way that you actually look forward to the trip.
Politician: One who shakes your hand before elections and your confidence after.
Committee: Individuals who can do nothing individually and sit to decide that nothing can be done together.
Ecstasy: A feeling when you feel you are going to feel a feelingyou have never felt before.
Office: A place where you can relax after your strenuous home life.
Conference Room: A place where everybody talks, nobody listens & everybody disagrees later on.
Dictionary: A place where divorce comes before marriage ..
Tears: The hydraulic force by which masculine will-power is defeated by feminine water-power .
Compromise: The art of dividing a cake in such a way that everybody beleives he got the biggest piece
Conference: The confusion of one man multiplied by the number present…
Opportunists: One who starts having a bath when he/she accidently falls in a river …
Lecture: An art of transferring
information from the notes of the lecturer to the notes of the students
without passing through "the minds of either".
College: A place where some pursue learning and others learn pursuing.
Pessimist: A person who says that O is the last letter in ZERO, instead of the first letter in word OPPORTUNITY
Miser: A person who lives poor so that he can die rich.
Optimist: A person who while falling from Eiffel tower says in midway "See I am not injured yet"
Smile: A curve that can set a lot of things straight.
Divorce: Future tense of marriage.
Aries 27th November
Monday November 26th 2007, 7:19 pm
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Jurnal
The Bottom Line
Try to fit more physical activity into this day. Getting active will make you happy.
In Detail
Try to fit more physical activity into this day. Take the stairs,
park at the far end of the lot, or maybe just dance around the kitchen.
Getting your blood pumping will serve as a great outlet for all the
energy that you might not know what to do with. Getting active with
your body also encourages you to get active in your brain. And who
knows? That extra half hour in your workout could stir up a bevy of new
ideas in your mind and give you a strong sense of possibility.
Aries 23rd November
Thursday November 22nd 2007, 5:00 pm
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The Bottom Line
There will be a tough decision for you to make today — do what you know is right.
In Detail
There will be a tough decision for you to make today — are you
going to do what you know you should do, or are you going to do what
you want to do? Take a step back and look at potential problems that
could develop if you take the easy route. The longer you delay doing
the necessary work, the bigger these challenges will grow. The best
attitude for you today is to just dive in and get things over with.
Tomorrow you will have a lot more flexibility to do what you want.
Kenduri 17th November
Wednesday November 21st 2007, 6:23 pm
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Jurnal hehe..sorry la.. lambat sket update nyer… been very very very busy lately.Dgn keletihan yang tak terkatanya…Routine yang berterusan semenjak hari Raya… sehingga akhir bulan November… tak ada rest sehari pun. penat giler. Mo flat badan rasanya.
Anyway.. ni gambar kenduri di rumah abah/mak di Klang pada 17th November yang lepas. menu very simplen. Nasi lemak, bihun
goreng dan sate. Makanan tambahan ada karipap… tauhu sumbat..caramel…kek pisang… kek span… cendol..buah pisang. Lupa nak bagi tau.. kenduri ni adalah kenduri doa selamat sebab Kak lang and Abg Azam akan melangkah kaki ke Mekah 4hb December ni. Rezeki dia orang pegi tahun ni…
Banyak?.. memang banyak.. and memang penat.. Sate tu dah tentu2 beli la.. tp nasi impit sendiri rebus. Nasi lemak.. milia 
masak.. sambal sotong nyer.. milia msak.. ikan bilis..milia goreng.. timun.. milis potong.. telor mak rebus…kangkung long celor. Tauhu sumbat .. k.ngah buat.. karipap beli.. kek pisang.. milia buat… caramel.. milia buat..
susun meja/kusi milia n bibiks buat.. vacum.. bibik buat.. basuh pinggan.. bibik n ucu 
buat. kemas2.. semua buat.. including Haya.. ehhe..thanks beb tolong wa malam tu. eh lupa lak..cendol.. mak buat.. beli2 barang.. milia and abah. Memang teruk milia.. luar dalam kuar masuk semua milia handle. Mak dah tak larat.. tu pun mengah jer rupanya.. abah plak..tak larat nak
tu.. satu badan milia teramat penat n sakit.. especially kaki and tumit. nasib baik ada peyus tolong pijak badan.. Una tolong urut kaki..heheheheh…..
berjalan byk2.. mcm nak tumbang jer.. so in the end.. milia buat semua. mmg mlm
Jangan Pernah
Wednesday November 21st 2007, 6:03 pm
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Jurnal 
Jangan pernah katakan cinta
Jika kamu tidak pernah peduliJangan bicara tentang perasaan
Jika rasa itu tidak pernah ada
Jangan pernah genggam jemari
Jika berniat membuat patah hati
Jangan pernah katakan selamanya
Jika berniat untuk berpisah
Jangan pernah menatap mataku
Jika yang kamu ucapkan adalah kebohongan
Jangan pernah ucapkan "Halo"
Jika berniat mengucapkan "Selamat
Tinggal"
Jangan pernah bilang kalau "Akulah satu-satunya"
Jika kamu mengimpikan
yang lainnya
Jangan pernah mengunci hatiku
Jika kamu tidak punya kuncinya
Aries 22nd November
Wednesday November 21st 2007, 6:01 pm
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The Bottom Line
You are slowly moving into a more inward time, when you can figure stuff out.
In Detail
Don’t be surprised when someone has to jump up and down or squirt
you with a water pistol to get your attention today — you will be
(blissfully) lost in thought throughout most of the day. You are slowly
moving towards a more inward time, when you will dive deep into
yourself to sort through your feelings and figure out where you want to
go next. There are a few mountains for you to climb, and deciding which
one to ascend first requires you to take some quiet time on your own.
Aries 21st November
Tuesday November 20th 2007, 10:47 pm
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Jurnal
The Bottom Line
Just because your phone hasn’t been ringing doesn’t mean people aren’t interested.
In Detail
Just because your phone hasn’t been ringing off the hook doesn’t
mean that people don’t want to connect with you. They are probably just
waiting for you to make the first move — and are you sure you even
want to, right now? Sure, your social life may be throttling down
lately, but that can be a very good thing. You should use this downtime
to organize some of the more hectic areas of your life and get back on
top of financial issues you may be neglecting.
Geram..Hangin..Tensen
Thursday November 15th 2007, 6:24 pm
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Jurnal isk… geram betui hati ini… hangin!!..tensen… apa la manusia ni… apa pasal peel cam setan… sorry la kali ni bahasa milia agak kasar.. milia mmg tengah sakit hati.. nak tau citer….
gini… kucing milia.. CHIDA… kena kidnap!!!!.. uwaaaaaaaaaa… ni kali kedua kucing comel dan lawa kena kidnap. Dulu Phebo kena kidnap… ni CHIDA lak.. apa yg unik nyer si CHIDA ni??? CHIDA ni bulu kaler oren jer.. tapi bulu kembanggggggg!!!.. tah mana sesat dia ni dpt bulu kembang and panjang. Kalu tengok adik beradik dia yang lain.. bulu biasa jer… si CHIBO.. dgn CHIBA.. bulu biasa jer… tapi si CHIDA ni bulu kembang and panjang.. JANTAN lak tu!!!.. kot la boleh buat baka kan… geram betui ati milia. Kalu dapat tau sapa kidnap kucing milia ni.. milia cincang 18 tgn dia!!!… tak ada otak agaknya… tu kan kucing orang. sesuka ati nak kidnap.. BODOH. BANGANG. P********, P#$%&$%&*&, B&*(^*(!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aries 16th November
Thursday November 15th 2007, 5:08 pm
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Jurnal
The Bottom Line
There is nothing standing in your way today! The road is wide open and smooth.
In Detail
There is nothing standing in your way today! The road is wide open
and slanted slightly downhill — just enough to let you coast along
nicely. Let your ambition take a back seat for today, while you just
ride out the day and see what it brings you. Go through this day is if
you were pedaling leisurely along through a giant, blooming garden.
Take your time and you will find a few breathtakingly beautiful
surprises, some comforting sights, and some very intriguing new
specimens.
Congratulations Aminah Nadhirah
Wednesday November 14th 2007, 8:22 pm
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heheh… today would be one of my happy days… my niece.. AMINAH NADHIRAH got 5As in her UPSR exam. Maybe to some not a big deal.. but to us it is a big deal, as Nad is the first one to take such big exams amongst my nieces and nephews.
Again.. CONGRATULATIONS… hugs, kisses and loves for you Nad!!!..
psssttt… did I tell you guys.. Nad ni.. milia bela masa dlm pantang. Got back from UK utk summer holiday, my kak long gave birth, and Nad was under my care for the next 44 days. I bathed her.. feed her.. and even at nite.. when she cant stop crying.. she will fell asleep in my arms ( after so many version of Jentayu …ehhehe..).. and now… Nad ni kawan Milia gado.. hahahahaha….
